You’re not the only one! I hear this comment lots from couples.  To be fair it’s really only professional models and celebrities who used to having their picture taken frequently. So don’t worry, I do understand it can be slightly unnerving.  

Choosing the right photographer will help. I recommend meeting your photographer face to face (if that's possible) or virtually on Face Time. Have a chat and a coffee together.  You’ll get to know each other, share your big day plans and tell them a bit about you as a couple.  Don’t be scared to share your photography concerns.  You’ll build rapport and before you know it you’re relaxed.  You should feel comfortable in their company and happy to be around them.  It’s almost a gut feeling, you just know when you’ve found the right one.  A bit like husband’s!

Another way to overcome any nerves is to have an engagement photoshoot, it gives a great idea of what to expect on the day.  Again this gives a chance to connect with your photographer. Feeling comfortable with them is key to feeling comfortable in front of the camera.  Some of my couples said they were feeling nervous before the shoot but by the end they had fun and enjoyed it.  Some of the self-consciousness around having photo’s taken is fear of the unknown. Pre-wedding sessions will disperse those fears and put you at ease for your speical day.

On your wedding day, you probably won’t notice your photographer much.  You’ll be busy saying your vows, talking to your guests and caught up in the moment.  For couple portraits, doing them away from friends and family in the grounds of your venue can help you feel relaxed.  Having a little time together, just the two of you is priceless.

My best advice is to take a few deep breaths and have fun.  Enjoy being with your soulmate on your most special of days.

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